BUT I HAVEN'T ALWAYS BEEN
OPEN ABOUT SEX
Truthfully, my dating life used to be TRASH.
Per my harmfully religious upbringing, I was a late bloomer who suffered from deeply engrained sexual repression. Growing up, a part of me was always interested in understanding sexuality and relationships but it wasn't until around the age of 18 when I moved to the hoe capital of the world (Atlanta, GA) that I made the active decision to learn everything I could about heathy sex and relationships.
I was a hot mess when I first began dating because, like the large majority of us, I was misinformed about sexual health and never learned how to effectively communicate. But I kept at it because mama ain't raise no bitch.
And I did it all -- the celibate phase, the serial dating phase, the hoe phase, and the downright sex-club-party-girl-thot-it-was-a-drought phase. I opened myself up to fully embracing my sexuality and building meaningful platonic, romantic, and sexual relationships with others, and it was the best decision I've ever made.
I spent the next few years of my life learning from sex and relationship experts all around the world then putting what I learned into practice by consciously connecting with others -- and having a blast (aka hella orgasms) while doing so.